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Worship and masturbation/trance-meditation and self love

How mature is the idea of sex here in America really? I'd wager and say, not very. We have some very interesting albeit messed up thoughts about it. but then again so is the idea of all things female/feminine…

Now what I will start off saying is that this show is about wholistic healing and living. So if you have a blasé idea and feeling on sex, that's fine for you but I will not tolerate low energy thinking here. Penises and vaginas are great. Yes I am very pro-penis and straight but I honor both physical aspects here. The union of the two will be respected here always. Its not just about getting your rocks off. There comes a time where we have to grow up and out of the elementary stages of life in all aspects of our lives. This is not about manipulating each other so much as being the embodiment of the universes and manipulating in this dimension needs and wants responsibly. This is a cosmic situation that will be held in the highest regard for the highest good and I will not hesitate to hurt feelings and shut shit down if I feel things are going otherwise. I don't care how small or large a dick is. Its to be honored.i don't care if the pussy is not wet enough or too wet or too loose or too tight. Honor it. fellas learn how to last longer than a few mins. It takes time. But you can do it. do your male kegals. Its not unmanly to do yogic poses. Ladies get your vaginal muscles together to be able to receive any size dick. Its all workable. Exercise your body. Walk and run. Lets not be sloppy. And honor sex as a pleasurable spiritual task. Not mundane. Not just a mere physical working. Step your knowledge up. And practice it. what good is it just to know something if you are not going to physically and actively put it into practice?? this is intentionally circulating energy at its finest and best. Lets mutual love and revitalize each other and the world over. Remember that sex is to heal and create. Watch your thoughts when coming into the act.

I will be coming from the book 'sacred sex'. The physical body is the temple of the soul, the microcosm of the universe and w/id found all of the cosmic principles. The tantras teach that the temple of the body is unsurpassed by outward temples. All the elements, space, air, fire, water, and earth are found within the body. Our bodily temple has its 'gardens,' 'rivers,' 'sanctuaries,' and 'gates'. Of course we've generally known the temple as a place of worship dedicated to the srvc of god. Now in tantra, the god is your highest self or soul to be known and srvd throughout the body.

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antra teaches about the nine 'gates' to the bodily temple divided between the upper part and the lower part. 'lower gates' are the genitals and anus and upper gates are the mouth, nose eyes, ears, and the fontanel opening at the top of the head. Its said that these openings are where the soul may exit and enter to travel in its journeys but especially the fontanel. That's the area that's soft when the baby is born til its like one or two yrs old.

The temple of the sublte body contains three main 'rivers,' from which branches out innumerable tributaries. The one great river or 'psychic pathway' runs from the region of the lower gates, the perineum, up the spine to the uppermost gate at the top of the head. Sometimes its referred to as the great axis, the holy mount meru, or just the great pathyway. It connects you with the cosmos.

Now put into your mind's eye the caduceus, we know that it clearly illustrates the basic concept of the subtle body which wld be our what? Aura? In tantra, the swirling energies of the snakes produce an ascending vortex of power, used in tantra for personal transformation. The act of worship in the temple conststs in focusing the creative attitude by channeling the sex energy upward. The 64 vital flames burn up all negativity and purify the psychic pathways. Through knowledge of the psychic pathways, the sexual experience becomes more potent. By practicing the secret techniques of tantra you can consciously experience orgasm and the ensuing transcendental delight. The bodily temple shld be kept clean, healthy and harmonious, out of respect for the divinity w/in. ensure the temple divinity's complete satisfaction. Don't hld back. Real worship is a spontaneous and a total act of love. Worshipping in the temple of the body during love-making will result in all desires being fulfilled. That sensual love is an act of great magical and spiritual ptency is one of the main principles of tantra.

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o what I am sharing here is that its not all about sex. Its about honoring the divine in yourself and in your partner. When you join then that's an even stronger connection and union for the divine in each other is the same and so even more powerful if you will. Remember that whatever is repressed will inevitably erupt and usually at the most inopportune moment. So the whole 'renouncing the flesh for the sake of the soul' wont and as we've noticed…lol havnt worked for its really hopeless. We can religiously explain it away but really? Sexual habits are especially limiting and this is where tantra requires adaptability. We say, I cant chng this or that or I always do this or that. Keep in mind that sexual habits are the most restrictive. If there is any intentional act of will having a magical potency it is far more effective than a habitual and unintentioned act. Mental habits are more difficult to deal with than physical ones being less obvious. They are often inherited from parents and social and envrnmntl conditioning. Self examination is very important here. Meditation is also very important.

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undalini…..One thing I will say about kundalini, since some of us are familiar, this power in the tantras is referred to as an 'inner woman' or kundalini Shakti, and is likend to an dangerous couled-up snake. This normally latent power can act either creatively or destructively, positively or negatively. Kunda means pool and the world kundalini is the molten pool of primordial elements at the core of the earth. It pulses at a regular frequency and occasionally rises into volcanoes erupting and earthquakes…kundalini shakti is the power of sex, which can either bind or liberate you. As the latent power necessary for spiritualization, the kundalini is particularly significant to those who seek to understand the mysteries of sexuality. Tantras have various methos for 'awakening' and channeling the kundalin energy. Gheranda Samhita says, 'the great goddess kundalini, the primordial energy of the self, sleeps in the sexual region of the body. She has a form rather like a serpent, having three and one half coils. As long as she remains asleep, the individual soul is limited and true knowledge does not arise. But just as the right key unlocks a particular door, so hatha yoga unlocks the door of kundalini…' the text explains how breath retention, visualization, mental repetition of specific sound vibrations, and certain physical movements together awaken and control the all-powerful kundalini. So kundalini is not a joke! It can be positive or negative depending on you! Now of course sexual contact is particularly liable to awaken and stimulate the kundalini w/in. sometimes we stumble upon it through the natural convergence of love sharing ( like that better than making love….hopefully we have some love inside…or just stop now…lol) the exertion in the act can replicate the conditions for awakening the kundalini: the deep breathing, movement of the sexual region, convergence and exchange of vital breaths, and the grunting and other noises made like hmm, hah, oh, oooh….(such lovely vowels) stimulating the serpent power.

When you experience it ( and let me tell you that it can be a phone call from a person of interest, their voice, your imagined mutual touches….) its like an inner thrill and a liquid fire simultaneously hot and cold, electric, almost paralyzing, opening up the whole being, lightening and liberatin, taking the breath away. Now sometimes the awakening can be a fearful experience, but if the correct mental attitude is brought to bear, it is easy to channel the energy positively. Physical exercise, dancing, sudden sounds and shock that resonate in harmony with the kundalini frequency. When a couple learn to awaken and channel the kundalini-enrgy consciously, their love-sharing takes on a totally new dimension.

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asturbation or self-love. This involves the physical, emotional, and mental aspects of an individual. This is a good time especially for the young to learn control of sexual energy and introduce an awareness of the interrelationship of breath, thought, and the emission of fluids. It is my personal thought and belief that we shld be teaching our children at home instead of them learning on the street or school and or haphazardly personal trial and error. I think it shld be encouraged. Not sleazily. However, this is whre most are so…teaching our children the retention of breath and visualization of sex energy circulating and nourishing the body is key to control ejaculation in males and such. The males shld be taught how to sublimate his sexual energy with yogic postures, breathing and meditation. Healthy diet is best for sublimation. If you're eating crap, maybe you shld forgo the injaculation so that you wont get sick…lol and imagine if its not good for you, its not good for me and my vagina….just a thought!!

This is the life essence here so treat it with care. Sperm shld never be carelessly discarded, it containing all the physical attributes of a man . it can be used magically to empower amulets. Us women on the other hand are everflowing (shld be) rivers. The man is yang and his essence supply is finite compared to our infinite ying. Remember to circulate and dedicate the energy to a higher purpose than mere sensualism. Offer your pleasure to your indwelling male principle (remember we all have the male and female principle w/in. it's our lifes duty to be balanced harmony. Kind of what we are fighting here…lol) offer your orgasms to feed the god/goddess w/in. come into this mentally w/a desire for transformation and spiritualization. As your sex energy ascen to the sublime it strengthens the subtle or auric body at the same time that it vitalizes the physical body. Positive and creative imaginings shld be cultivated during your self- love act. Almost everything you want to do with a physical partner, try it for yourself w/yourself. Don't worry about sounding or looking stupid; this is SELF-LOVE….you're not performing for anyone. Chant while you do it, sing while you do it, and just enjoy it. its not about friction. Friction is great and feels lovely but is quite addictive. Take your time and honor yourself inside and out.