The young man growth spurt

 https://youtu.be/ktdFOpPjdf4

We often wonder why in the past the children did not like school. Or even now for that matter. Many times, our children are having difficulties connecting and we are so consumed as adults thinking we can relate to them as adults.
I remember when my daughter was around 2 yrs old. I remember the Spirit telling me that we are doing this all wrong. We have been accustomed to relating to our children as adults. It is in err. We are thinking that the child is so advanced that we can just say anything and they will just automatically understand and adjust.
Imagine being in school and your teacher constantly berating you. The young man Angel (puerto rican) obviously must have been adhd. Not advocating drugs though; just knowing that you would deal w/him differently. He needed to be in constant physical activity to learn. Not everyone is the sit down quiet type.
The other young man Clarence (black young one) was dyslexic. The teacher could tell he had a problem but did not know how to address it. He would be so frustrated that he would just pick a fight.
Going to principal's office and having conferences are also added stress for children. The bad reports are not great although the truth needs to be told.
The reason why I'm sitting and writing this long soliloquy is because this gets my heart.
Our young boys are often overlooked to the point where many are abused in a myriad of ways, (sexually, emotionally, physical beats, etc_) and no one seems to bat an eye. Or that's how it translates to them as they observe the girls getting doted over. It makes for a wild upbringing and immature adulting. Many of our young males are stuck somewhere at 8yrs old sometimes; their reasoning only growing most slow from fear. https://youtu.be/ktdFOpPjdf4